It’s a good idea to come back every once in a while to review these notes because so much can happen. You want to make sure that they’re up to date and that they reflect any recent life-milestones or developments. You wouldn’t, for example, want to write a love note to your daughter as she’s preparing to graduate high school and then never update the love note. How odd and even confusing it must be to hear you talk about graduation when she’s already been married, had kids, and started her own company.

Another big reason to come back here often is that your relationship with people will evolve and change. New people will come into your life who you may want to create a Love Note for and others may have drifted away.

The final reason to come back here often is to make sure emails are accurate. If someone has changed their email then this love note won’t have anywhere to go.

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